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Formosa (formosa1984)


February 23, 2012


Taipei, Taiwan


Loved One is a Cancer Survivor

Cancer Info


Alison


mother


May 16, 2006


Stage 3


Yes


Seeing your loved one suffer, and being helpless to do anything about it...


To treasure life, to love life and live like there is no tomorrow


Stay positive, and spread love, hope and happiness to all around you...


retroperitoneal lymph node, spine C7


Taipei Veterans General Hospital / Wanfang Hospital


Oral hygiene is very important to ensure mouth / throat sores do not get worse. Get plenty of rest in the days following treatment. Get a glutamine supplement, which will boost your energy levels and reduce the effects (sores, fatigue) of chemo-/ radio-therapy. Even if you do not have the appetite, you must eat. Think of what you like to eat, and eat that! Spread out meals over the day, eat when you can and when you feel like it. Eat in small quantities. If you have difficulty swallowing, drink cold liquids, blended juices and soups. Ice cream is a wonderful treat, and can be blended with fresh fruits!


Try to give the patient love and encouragement and physical contact (hugs, strokes, pats...). Meditation can help calm the mind. Go outdoors, get in touch with nature. Think positive, and do not always think you are a "patient" or that you are different from others. If you cannot beat it, coexist with it...


Colon cancer: bowel discomfort and bloatedness for some weeks, sudden sharp pain at one point. Smaller/thinner stool, darker in colour. Spinal cancer: compression of the tumour on the nerve causing great soreness and pain on arms and hand. Section C7 reflects the left hand, while section T2 reflects more or less the right hand. The soreness and pains can get so bad that you cannot move your arms. Prolonged compression on the nerves can damage the nerve permanently, and if the tumour eats away the bone, the spine may collapse and result in complete paralysis...


Feb 2012, at Wangfang Hospital, Taipei. First place section L5, in the lower back (one hour), then section T2, in the mid-back region, three hours (spread over three days). Side-effects include sore throat and lost voice (only one week), lethargy and fatigue, and sores around the treatment areas. Steroids taken to protect nerves and surrounding tissues caused severe vomiting. Effectiveness yet to be assessed.

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Holding her hand

Within hours of writing the last entry, the letter to Cancer, I held my mother’s hand, and smiled…

No more pain, no more suffering.

The cancer is no more.

[[Holding_mum’s_hand]]

novamomof2 sent you a prayer.
kellye sent you a hug.

I am so sorry. May she RIP and be free!

I’m so sorry. You were clearly a great support to her, and I’m sure she appreciated that very much. Many hugs to you. ann

I am so sorry that you now face the grieving in a different way but you know you did all that you could and was with her at the end…
Melinda

Now your mum can truly RIP.
And you were there to comfort her and explain upping morphine so she wouldn’t be scared.
You helped give her a loving death; soothing from your heart.
Hugs, Nicole

I am so sorry. No more suffering for her..there is peace. I hope in time there will be the same for you. Hugs! and prayers for you and your family.

Dear Alison, I wanted to mention that if you could let Jill know about your mom passing (or want me to do it), then she could add a memorial page for your mom. We would like to light candles for her. Many hugs-Ann

I’m so sorry for her passing, I know she is resting in peace now…((HUGS))
thanks for sharing apart of her with us